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Happy Wife and Happy Husband
Seemingly most of my married life I have been informed, “Happy Wife, Happy Life”. Well, I suppose there must be some truth to that well-intended advice from others with years of marital experience. Is this something which you desire?
Happy Wife:
So, what is it that makes your wife happy (do you know)? This should be something every husband knows or get to know after being together for some time. Take a moment and visualize how your beautiful bride may possibly even begin to look and act different once she experiences “happy” within her marital life.
You, my friend, play a very large part in this process. What could you “say” to her that would assist in making her happy? Even when times of frustrating trials and turmoil approach, your words can have a significant impact on helping her to remain calm and at peace.
What could you “do” for her to help to make her happy? Even after being married for years and even decades, women seem to still enjoy receiving flowers and chocolates. Other gifts are encouraged and appreciated as well. Maybe even better, a “back rub” or “massage” may be just what she needs.
Happy Husband:
So, how would your life potentially look if “both of you” could enjoy being happy? Having love and peace and unity in the home is something worth working hard to obtain. Consider what benefits you will share once you and the love of your life can enjoy a “life of being” happy together.
When was the last time you recall when both of you were happy (while together)? Remember, this is very important to any marriage. What are you willing to do to enjoy having you and your other half happy together? Maybe you should open up to her and make certain she knows how much you care about her, and want her happy.
Consider making this your mission for today. If you can think of something to say to her, or do for her, or even just discuss with her … well, what are you waiting for? Now is the time for both of you to “be happy”. The best marriages seem to be those where both the husband and the wife could enjoy being together, and happy.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)