No Husband Left Behind
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When Away from Home
More than likely, you find yourself having to be away from the house for several hours a day, most days of the week. Maybe even having to travel and be away longer. So, how does a married Christian “remain” faithful to their “one and only”? What kind of strategy do you have in place to avoid losing focus?
[Part 1 – Topic]
At times, work may require you to be away from home for several hours a day. Of course, you have to add up your “work” time, “lunch” time, and “travel” time to discover the “total” hours each day. You may even be asked to stay late, working overtime before being released.
Some jobs keep workers out on the road driving or in the air flying, and gone for days or even weeks at a time. The longer you find yourself away from home (specifically from your spouse), the more focused you need to be. Your love for God and your spouse must always be greater.
Other commitments including volunteer and ministry time may deprive couples from their quality “alone” time. This kind of work should provide a sense of satisfaction and fulfillment for “giving” to help someone else. Just remember, Satan can utilize even the least likely times and places to draw away God’s people.
[Part 2 – Problem]
So, you leave the home minding your own business. Yet, someone or something distracts you later in the day. Maybe an attractive colleague always asking about how you spent your weekend. Or, spending a “significant” part of your day working with this person.
What should you do if a colleague invites you over after work? Something about a party where you can meet some other people. Should you go? Remember, you could always ask if your amazing life partner is “also” welcomed, right?
Extra long hours at work really draining your energy, but perhaps you really need the money. Should you be concerned at all? Whether overtime becomes a “few” or “several” extra hours, just be careful. You have someone special who is “concerned” and “praying” for you to return home safe and sound.
[Part 3 – Solution]
When you leave for work, your “focus” is on earning income for your family. Making a positive impact in the workplace is also rewarding. No room for unfaithfulness though. Perhaps keeping a “photo” of your dear spouse where you can “view” throughout the day.
Always be extra careful when going to “visit” colleagues or friends (without your spouse). Make sure you discuss with your other half beforehand. And be sure to set a “time” limit. You definitely should get home to your main squeeze as soon as humanly possible.
Please consider all of your options wisely every single day. Be especially vigilant when your energy is nearly completely drained at “work”. Whether working late or not, your other half is expecting you home. Be sure to provide an update. Maybe even share a “kiss”.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)
Other resources which may be of interest…
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“3 Things to Tell Your Spouse Tonight”
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“Identifying Your Top 3 Must Haves”
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