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Spouse Earning Gold Medal
Has there ever lived a married man or woman who was able to “earn a gold medal” from their adoring spouse? Well, I honestly have no idea what it would take for you to ever bestow such “an honor” to the love of your life. Would your other half even have a “fair chance” if you are the judge?
[Part 1 – Topic]
Following after the theme of the Olympics and other very competitive sports events, medals and other awards are often given for superior accomplishment within one or more categories. Skills will likely have been developed over several years.
Athletes often train extensively in an effort to end up in an “elite” group. These superstars are impressive to watch, as they demonstrate what a life of discipline and sacrifice really looks like.
So, what kind of person does it take to win a “gold” medal? How about as a result of loving and serving within marriage? Could you possibly be fair in evaluating the love of your life? And would you be quick to offer “an award” or even “a medal”?
[Part 2 – Problem]
Perhaps you and your spouse have been struggling to get things just right. Possibly after continual learning and adjustments to each other’s preferences. It may take days, or even weeks. Before you know it, it becomes months. And even years. Maybe your relationship will never be “perfect”.
You may simply feel that your other half is not anywhere near “earning” a gold medal. The longer the two love birds spend together, the easier (or harder) it is for him and her to truly appreciate what the other brings to the table.
Maybe you are just not “helping your life partner” become their absolute very best. You know, if you really want your spouse to “win the gold”, possibly your supportive encouragement along the way may be that needed extra boost.
[Part 3 – Solution]
Remember, all marriages require work. And you will need to invest both time and energy. Of course, this includes even “Christian” marriages, where one or both partners are following the teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Even if the love of your life is “not” perfect, possibly some extra affection and kind words could offer the motivate your other half needs and likely desires. You know, married couples should grow “closer” together the longer they “do life” side-by-side.
Please never forget that marriage consists of two individuals who need to learn to work and play well together. This is the only way to win in marriage. Maybe today is the day both of you begin working for the same desired end result. Winning the gold, for both of you.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)
Other resources which may be of interest…
FREE PDF:
“3 Things to Tell Your Spouse Tonight”
https://freebie.nohusbandleftbehind.com/3-things-to-tell-your-spouse-tonight
FREE WORKSHEET:
“Identifying Your Top 3 Must Haves”
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