No Husband Left Behind
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Not Going Certain Places
Are you entertaining certain locations on the planet that may not be the best choices for you? Or, for someone who is “married”? Maybe not a preferred place for a “Christian” to visit. Well, maybe you should take a moment and ponder if today is the day to identify an alternative.
[Part 1 – Topic]
Can you think of a place where you once visited, but now you have a really “bad feeling”? Probably at some point in the past, you may have had different choices than you now have (since becoming a follower of Jesus Christ).
Is there a specific location that comes to mind where you feel “uncomfortable”? Maybe a place on the map where you sense a feeling of being “allured” (tempted). Or even somewhere not inviting for those who are “dedicated” to their marital partner.
Maybe you feel strong enough at this point to go “anywhere” on Earth, but how does your spouse feel about it? At times, we really should take some time to consider the thoughts and feelings of our loving spouse.
[Part 2 – Problem]
Maybe temptation is far greater for you right now if and when stopping by a “former” (previously visited) destination. You will probably agree with me that none of us should ever put ourselves into a more challenging spot, if at all possible.
Possibly a friend of yours has an interesting request that could seem good or at least okay, but you are not really sure. In the back of your mind, you may be a little worried that things could turn out bad (if you are not careful).
Your other half may be somewhat “uncomfortable” hearing about you associating with someone or somewhere “questionable” or even “inappropriate” for God’s children. All of us have a reputation, and a good one is worth the extra effort to preserve.
[Part 3 – Solution]
Anywhere you visited in the past which may now be viewed as a poor choice for Christians should likely not be utilized starting right now. Especially if any of your “former” friends may seem to be pulling you back toward your old (pre-Christian) life.
Please avoid any place where you feel Satan may use to set you up for a fall. If there is a strong possibility that you will get hurt or that your marriage could worsen, please avoid at all cost. Your life and marriage are worth the extra effort searching for alternatives.
Once you have prayed about your choices, discuss your options with your life partner (before making any critical decisions). The Holy Spirit is always available to provide guidance, but the other half of your heart will generally share excellent advice.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)
Other resources which may be of interest…
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