No Husband Left Behind
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More Than Dinner
When was the last time you two love birds really enjoyed a meal together? Specifically, where both of you were very “satisfied” with both the food selections and the company. Would you be willing to arrange something special for the love of your life, maybe even tonight?
[Part 1 – Topic]
Would you consider the possibility of “preparing” a meal to share with your spouse? You could grill something outside if that is where you feel most comfortable. Or, you may enjoy cooking inside, using the stovetop, oven, crock-pot, or even the microwave. Fixing something special for your other half is a way of showing food “made-with-love”.
Be sure to integrate something your other half really enjoys. This should not be another one of those meals which only “you” love devouring. What dinner options come to mind when we talk about your spouse’s “favorites”? Do you know, or are you drawing a blank right now?
Now that you have started thinking about the possibilities, perhaps you will want to make a list. That way, you can take inventory of what you already have at home, and what is still needed for dinner to be a success. Consider what your main entrée will be, along with one or more sides. Of course, dessert is probably strongly encouraged as well.
[Part 2 – Problem]
Perhaps you feel like a menace in the kitchen, or would simply prefer not to cook. There is no shame in focusing your attention on mastering other skills. Time may not even allow you a quality experience for doing all of the food prep, cooking, and clean-up afterwards.
Maybe you do not even know what your spouse “really” enjoys, especially if you both usually just grab something quick. Many couples seem to juggle various responsibilities, and travel between work, school, and other functions.
There may even be some concern about choosing “poorly”, and letting down your other half. Is what you prefer to eat identical to what your other half would also prefer to savor?
[Part 3 – Solution]
When preparing this meal, remember to select various items to provide some level of variety. Perhaps you may want to include a meat with one or more vegetables for the main meal. Possibly a healthy fruit for dessert may be best. Be careful to consider whether your other half eats any meat, and would possibly prefer a salad.
Maybe you will decide to allow the culinary genius of others to work for you, and consider ordering take-out or have something delivered. Just consider a few options before placing your order. You definitely want to select food which both of you will enjoy.
Remember, you could always ask the love of your life what would be extra special for supper tonight (unless you prefer this to be a surprise). Whatever you order will either be “well” enjoyed, or a “learning” experience. The longer you remain married, the more of both of these you will share. Have fun, and remember to enjoy the partner whom you have committed yourself.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)