No Husband Left Behind
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Finding Your Solutions
Is there potentially some sort of problem that you would like to have solved? Specifically, between you and the love of your life? Well, maybe your solution is currently in the works and hoping to be discovered…
[Part 1 – Topic]
Probably everyone knows to end up with a “solution”, we must first identify the “problem”. Every person seems to have some kind of problem or challenge, at least from time to time. Every marriage generally contains “two” of those individuals.
So, what exactly are you wanting to discover a fix for, or an improvement to make? Do you know what it is that bothers, or disappoints, or aggravates, or disgusts you? Not to frustrate your situation, but you should take a moment to call it out.
Your Heavenly Father is always available whenever you are ready. No pressure, He is willing to wait for you. All Christians should be willing to utilize this “life-line”. You and your Creator are “wired” to work together, if you are willing to do things His way.
[Part 2 – Problem]
Perhaps you have so much going on that you are not even sure what the problem is. With so many different responsibilities and distractions all throughout any given day, it may be somewhat difficult to merely focus on just one thing.
Maybe you have some understanding of what needs to change, but your spouse is not really on board. You may feel like you are going at it all alone. Possibly by you taking the initiative to get thing moving in the right direction, your dear spouse may begin to get a clue and see something better on the horizon.
You could even be so frustrated you are simply just giving up, and giving in. Maybe you have gotten to the point where you no longer feel all of this is even worth the battle. Some days may end only after hanging on in “survival mode”.
[Part 3 – Solution]
The Holy Spirit is ever ready to help you with offering you guidance and direction. Perhaps right now is the perfect time to prayerfully seek Him. Honestly, this should be the first thing you do to get your day started.
Today could even be that day you schedule some quality time with your life partner to have that heart-to-heart talk. Perhaps this may be the best time to more deeply connect with the person whom you committed yourself for better or worse.
Never forget, your marriage is worth all of the hard work you continue to put in. Even on those “most” difficult days to endure, please stay the course. Whenever you feel “down-for-the-count”, please take the time to get yourself up, dust yourself off, and live another day for the glory of God.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)
Other resources which may be of interest…
FREE PDF:
“3 Things to Tell Your Spouse Tonight”
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“Identifying Your Top 3 Must Haves”
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