No Husband Left Behind
HIM & HER — Together (on the Same Page)
[Connect]
Committed to Spouse
Have you ever had a really good argument or even a fight where you questioned why in the world you ever got married? Or, those in-laws which never seem to let up. Whatever may be happening right now, our Awesome God has great plans for every one of His sons and daughters, and their Christian marriages.
[Part 1 – Topic]
Often, wedding vowels seem to integrate this idea of remaining together “until death”. That could be a shorter time for some, and longer duration for other couples. Please keep your head up, even if you ponder whether you can survive until that very last breath.
You probably have noticed that “time” is usually critically important in really getting to “know” your other half. One husband and one wife can collectively make both lives seems as sheer bliss or completely miserable. Wow, what power and ability we hold within our grasp. Hopefully you always embrace your spouse lovingly and supportively.
Perhaps remembering that you are also committed to God our Father, and His idea of marriage for life. Even though frustration is bound to come, especially from your well-intentioned relatives and friends. Try not to forget that “love” is that binding force which should keep both of you together, married for life.
[Part 2 – Problem]
At times, one or both partners in the marriage may have a “change of heart”. Oh no, someone has now “fallen out of love”. Not really sure our Creator has changed His mind (perhaps neither should we). If your spouse is no longer committed to you or the marriage, that may seem extremely difficult and even feel exhausting.
Perhaps other people are getting their nose in to your personal affairs. Relatives and friends may believe they are helping, when in fact are actually hindering your progress. Even in-laws have a gift of driving some nearly crazy. I suppose they may “want” the best for both of you.
Maybe you have even forgot what you enjoyed most about your life partner from the very start. Your relationship has hopefully evolved over time, but that initial attraction should potentially live on.
[Part 3 – Solution]
You likely understand that life and marriage come with challenges. Have you also come to realize each of these may “become” opportunities? Please remain fully committed to your Christian marriage. Maybe you would also be willing to tell your other half how much you “love” and “appreciate” their commitment to “you”.
If you are experiencing other people causing friction, maybe you could ask your spouse to help you set proper boundaries. Less time listening to their “negative” input for starters. Be especially vigilant to make friends with other “Christian” couples who also want to see your marriage succeed.
Finally, take a moment and remember what originally attracted you two love birds in the first place. Can you recall what you enjoyed most about the person whom you told “I do” the first time your eyes (and hearts) really connected? Maybe the time has come for you to tell the love of your life what “continues” to hold your interest.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)