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Christian Marriage is Awesome
When a man and a woman have already dedicated their hearts and lives to God individually, it appears to be “a match made in Heaven” once they also commit to each other. Of course, you need to be prepared for those times when not everything will go exactly as planned. So, how would you rate your own marriage? Fully Awesome, Mostly Awesome, Somewhat Awesome?
[Part 1 – Topic]
Christian marriage should be viewed as a partnership where our Lord Jesus unites the hearts of “one man” (husband) and “one woman” (wife). Every Christian marriage should include one of God’s sons and one of God’s daughters, drawn together by “True Love”.
This marital union should include regularly reading the Bible and praying (individually and collectively). You are welcome to do so quietly within or audibly out loud. This ongoing connection to our Lord Jesus should help to keep you both on the right track.
Whether everything seems to be perfect in your home or not, always communicate your thoughts and feelings to your life partner. Never assume that your spouse knows you well enough to always “read the vibes” correctly.
[Part 2 – Problem]
What happens when one or both of you says or does something which is not exactly classified as “Christian”. Likely every single one of us at some point in our past wish that we could have “retracted” that last statement.
Even love birds go through some kind of challenges or frustrations. Mistakes or stupid decisions may be able to be resolved in private (between you two love birds), but what if you cannot? Who then do you ask for help?
What about when only one person in the marriage is actively “Christian” or more dedicated to God? Can the marital union continue on successfully if one partner is currently distracted or pulled in a different direction from their soul mate?
[Part 3 – Solution]
Whenever you discover things are just not perfect, remember that “forgiveness” is only one prayer away. If you have said or done something which does not seem to be “Christian”, just apologize. First to your loving God, and then to your loving spouse.
If you ever notice things starting to feel awkward, take a moment and talk with the love of your life. Perhaps there really is a problem. Maybe even one which cannot be resolved alone. Never allow your pride to keep you from asking someone for help. Possibly seek pastoral counseling. Or, talk with a friend in the church (preferably a married couple).
Life and marriage are full of opportunities and surprises. Whenever things get really complicated or difficult, never carry the burden alone. Take a moment to “phone home”. Your Loving Heavenly Father is eagerly wanting to hear from you. And numerous angels are always on call ready to help.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)