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[Challenge]
Passionate Kiss Night
Woe, did somebody just turn up the heat? Not just “kiss” night, but the requirement to be “passionate”? What an interesting marriage this is turning out to become…
Preparations:
Before getting started, let us consider the food choices beforehand. Any dinner or snack selections should be evaluated for “kiss” worthy breath. Best to avoid things like garlic, onion, and strong spices.
To avoid any of those pointless distractions, let us begin by turning your phone ringers to off or vibrate. The worst thing possible is to be enjoying the love of your life and something breaking your concentration.
For the location, pick your favorite couch, love seat, oversized chair, inflatable mattress, bed, etc. A somewhat comfortable location is preferred. Unless your both prefer to be spontaneous and just grab each other, I recommend planning for an experience that should be able to last for an extended time.
If a little rhythm is preferred, consider playing some music in the background. Depending on how “aggressive” or “relaxing” you prefer your passionately kissing session, the music could help to set the desired tone.
Lastly, consider the lighting which should probably be at the lowest setting. Any overhead lights should already be off, and one or two lamps should only offer minimal lighting.
Now ready:
Where to begin, that is the question. Well, I strongly recommend having your eyes open at least initially, making sure you are about to kiss the right woman. Then, you can close your eyes to think about how much you enjoy this moment being alone and passionate with your one true love.
As you begin to kiss her, consider starting with somewhere other than her mouth. Perhaps her hand or arm … or even her forehead or cheek. This will give her some time to relax and forget about any earlier stress in the day. Once you get to her mouth, both of you should be extremely focused on each other, nobody and nothing else.
You should enjoy being so close you can feel her breath and maybe even hear her beating heart. This is a level of closeness that only two lovers can really enjoy. You may even notice her beginning to sweat a little, in anticipation for what is yet to come.
If you have already started your passionate kiss night experience with your spouse, please feel free to stop reading any further. Remember, you do not want any outside distractions. By the way, being married means you do not have to abruptly stop this evening with only a “kiss”. Your Christian marital union may really need more, so feel free to transition to the next level of passion and intimacy.
Last thought: For goodness sake, please have fun in your marriage. Our Awesome God and Creator has brought together “him” and “her” according to His design for humanity. Marriage should be thoroughly enjoyed. Okay, no more distractions. You should now be ready to offer your love a kiss in the most passionate way you can conceive.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)