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Talking About Everything
Do you two love birds realize the importance of sharing “everything” within your Christian marriage? Or, do you feel that some things are better as “off limits” to your life partner? Maybe even “classified” or “top secret”?
[Part 1 – Topic]
Have you ever heard the saying, “talking is cheap”? Some people may actually think that as being “normal” in marriage. Yet “talking” is a tool between individuals that has been utilized by humans for thousands of years.
As couples get really well acquainted over time, the two love birds may seem to prefer “talking” less. This seems to occur years or decades later, as both individuals already know what the other is going to say beforehand.
Remember, talking things out does not have to be in “audible” format. If you prefer, consider “writing” out your thoughts and feelings. Some “romantics” still enjoy old-fashioned, hand-written “love” notes.
[Part 2 – Problem]
So, you really do not enjoy “talking” about certain things, especially when “emotional” topics begin to surface. Maybe you begin to get a little “choked up” and struggle to get the words out.
Perhaps you question whether “everything” should really be “discussed” with your other half. Why should you feel the need to stop what you are doing (in the moment), and go “talk” to the love of your life (and possibly begin arguing about “your” concerns).
Maybe you do not really have the quality time to sit down together right now and share those deep, inner thoughts and feelings. And is it actually a marital “sin” not to discuss every single thing with your spouse in “real time” (as it occurs).
[Part 3 – Solution]
A good heart-felt,honest discussion helps to build a much stronger relationship. Every Christian marriage should aim for this to become the reality. At least once a week, set aside an hour or so with your other half (just for “talking”).
Your sacred marriage should include a covenant of “trust” where nothing should remain hidden. No topics should ever be off the table for discussion. Both of you have entered this “for life” commitment, and need to share all of your “thoughts” and “feelings”.
If conflicting schedules do not currently allow for much quality, alone and awake time “together”, consider providing a “quick” daily update however possible. Maybe a short telephone call or text message. Even a hand-written note would be very nice. Your marriage is always worth the extra time.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)
Other resources which may be of interest…
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