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Not Keeping Secrets
Do you really tell your dear spouse “everything”? Or, do you find that certain cases require a little more time for thought before the big reveal? Either way, Christians should be those who are setting the very best examples for the rest of the world.
[Part 1 – Topic]
So, when did married couples begin keeping secrets from each other? It could date back as far as the Garden of Eden. Regardless of when it all began, maybe we should be more focused on why we continue the trend even today.
Can you think of anything that would be justified as holding back from your other half? Maybe some bad news, and you do not want your other half to be upset. Possibly something you overheard from a friend or neighbor, but have not had the chance to “verify” before sharing.
Is your marriage one which others would potentially consider a role model for honesty and truthfulness? Or, do your closest connections see one or both of you usually holding back something?
[Part 2 – Problem]
What should you do when you obtain some bad news that impacts both of you? Maybe some disappointing test results from the doctor. Possibly your most recent work evaluation at work being less favorable. Or, insufficient funds to pay all the bills this month.
Maybe you have some seemingly good ideas that you are not yet ready to share with the love of your life. Some changes that you would like to make for the better. After all, who would object to positive upgrades, right?
Fear of the unknown can be crippling, causing even the strongest individuals frustration. Not really sure of what to say or what to do can be so disappointing. Maybe today is your day to simply move forward, even in spite of fear.
[Part 3 – Solution]
Generally speaking, God’s people should always go to Him first. Taking a few moments to address what is bothering you. Laying our each of your burdens before Him, letting them go in faith (that our Creator will make things better).
Sometimes the timing may not feel right, yet talking things out “earlier” is usually far better than waiting until “later” on. Please keep in mind that if you are waiting for the perfect time to share with your spouse, it may never come.
Stress and anxiety (of the unknown) are not good for your health or your marriage. Maybe you should consider taking a walk to clear your mind. Then as already mentioned, “pray” to God and “talk” with your spouse. And commit to having no secrets between you two love birds every again.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)
Other resources which may be of interest…
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