No Husband Left Behind
HIM & HER — Together (on the Same Page)
[Connect]
Not Doing Things Too Quickly
Ever feel like your marriage could use a little “tune-up”? You know, something feels like there could be a little “hesitation”. Possibly your relationship could even be running just a little “rough”. Whatever may be going on right now, be sure “not” to move “too” quickly. At least not until both the husband and wife in your home are doing it together.
[Part 1 – Topic]
Take a moment to consider possible alternatives before making any big decisions. You two love birds will likely want to make some sort of upgrade over the months to come. Something special for one or even both of you.
Poor choices in life can cost you several months (maybe even years) of a setback in both time and money. So, it generally pays to take a little time for researching options and planning.
Always be certain that you and your spouse are doing things together. Maybe we should call it “mutual consent”. Every marriage seems to operate much smoother when both partners are found working together, on the “same page”.
[Part 2 – Problem]
What should you do when your other half is moving faster (or slower) than you? Maybe you two love birds are not doing “enough” things together. Do you possibly even feel a little “out of sync”?
Maybe you and the love of your life are spending too much money right now. Specifically trying to get both partners “what he wants” and “what she wants”. Try to be extra careful that overspending does not take you in to any unnecessary debt.
Perhaps one of you (husband or wife) simply does not like change, unless it is essentially necessary. This can feel problematic for the other person in the marriage who may embrace changes and upgrades often.
[Part 3 – Solution]
Remember, the husband and wife should “talk” about everything, especially when it involves and impacts both of you. Who knows, maybe you should even try to slow down somewhat. At least long enough to come to an agreement on your “preferred choices” within the home and marriage.
How you invest your resources is important. Your Awesome Creator is counted on both of you to be good “stewards”. Of course, paying all of those bills for “necessities” is critical. Try to always find something to “give” or “donate”. And who does not want to save a few bucks before making a “larger” purchase?
If you have any doubts, always take your concerns to Father God. He always knows what is best for each and every one of us. Even when you feel like things are going okay, it never hurts to check in from time to time. Seems to me that He enjoys spending time with His children.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)
Other resources which may be of interest…
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“3 Things to Tell Your Spouse Tonight”
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“Identifying Your Top 3 Must Haves”
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