No Husband Left Behind
HIM & HER — Together (on the Same Page)
[Challenge]
Take Short Road Trip
Take a moment and begin brainstorming where you and your spouse would enjoy taking this short excursion. The length of time is completely up to the two of you, so feel free to be flexible. Maybe you need a few hours or possibly the whole day. Make sure to select a destination that will make you and your other half feel more refreshed, before returning.
Physical Drive:
Some of us prefer to drive our own vehicle everywhere, while others would rather rent something more suitable for travel. This decision is completely up to you. My wife (Edith) and I enjoy taking our primary vehicle on every road trip. On the other hand, we know others who prefer to rent something different for road trips (leaving their primary vehicle home to rest).
You and your other half should agree on the “roads” to travel and final “destination”, before ever leaving your home. Maybe a drive in the country would help to refresh both of you. Perhaps some time in the mountains or at the beach if you can spare the necessary time away. Wherever you go, do your best to enjoy some quality “couple” time together.
On this excursion, allow yourself to simply clear your mind. Maybe even begin to find some fresh inspiration. Breaking free from your “usual” should open up some possibilities which you may not have had by remaining in your static environment (always the same place). Hoping you discover new paths with exciting views of our Creator’s incredible landscape.
Virtual Drive:
If you have somewhat limited time or resources right now, perhaps the best use of your time would be online. Many different websites capture specifics in various locations of interest. Consider listing out places you enjoy, and search for webcams and videos. Enjoying both “live” and “pre-recorded” offers so much variety, and nearly guarantees something you and your main squeeze will enjoy.
Maybe you would both prefer to revisit somewhere you have not seen in years. Or, consider that bucket list of places you hope to see during this lifetime. Each couple will hopefully have one or two geographic spots which both can feel energized when visiting. If you both wish to go in separate directions for this trip (maybe one to the beach and the other to the mountains), consider picking a place to explore which offers both.
Please believe me when I tell you that the “journey” can be just as important as the “destination”. So, feel free to spend some time visiting multiple websites, and select one or two which seem to be the most promising. You are welcomed to use multiple devices for connected to the internet, if both of you wish to engage in the searching process (and sharing back and forth as desired).
Memory Lane:
If you would rather stay home at this time, you may want to consider taking a stroll down “Memory Lane” while reviewing some previously taken photos or videos. Maybe a trip you enjoyed in the last few years. Possibly even looking through those enjoyable “wedding” and “honeymoon” memories. Completely up to you and your main squeeze.
As with any shared “fun” time, remember to have snacks and beverages. You may not want to eat anything that would keep you two love birds from sharing a “passionate kiss” moment. Otherwise, you could always plan for “handholding”, especially if the “snack breath” is less than desired.
Hopefully the two of you can “enjoy” this time together, namely just the two of you “alone”. Marriage is such a beautiful thing, especially when you and the love of your life still enjoy being “together”. This time “away” is intended for you both to spend some “quality” moments with each other. Often, “routines” and “commitments” can keep you from such embracing.
From one who forever remains…
“Under the Shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1),
Shawn Episcopo
Christian Community for Married Men and Women — (Knights) & (Damsels)